net: add helpers for setting a memory provider on an rx queue

Add helpers that properly prep or remove a memory provider for an rx
queue then restart the queue.

Reviewed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David Wei <dw@davidwei.uk>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250204215622.695511-11-dw@davidwei.uk


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>