block: move the stable_writes flag to queue_limits

Move the stable_writes flag into the queue_limits feature field so that
it can be set atomically with the queue frozen.

The flag is now inherited by blk_stack_limits, which greatly simplifies
the code in dm, and fixed md which previously did not pass on the flag
set on lower devices.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Damien Le Moal <dlemoal@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240617060532.127975-18-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>