block: move the io_stat flag setting to queue_limits

Move the io_stat flag into the queue_limits feature field so that it can
be set atomically with the queue frozen.

Simplify md and dm to set the flag unconditionally instead of avoiding
setting a simple flag for cases where it already is set by other means,
which is a bit pointless.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Damien Le Moal <dlemoal@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240617060532.127975-17-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>