libbpf: Introduce more granular state for bpf_object

We are going to split bpf_object loading into 2 stages: preparation and
loading. This will increase flexibility when working with bpf_object
and unlock some optimizations and use cases.
This patch substitutes a boolean flag (loaded) by more finely-grained
state for bpf_object.

Signed-off-by: Mykyta Yatsenko <yatsenko@meta.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20250303135752.158343-3-mykyta.yatsenko5@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>