libbpf: Use map_is_created helper in map setters

Refactoring: use map_is_created helper in map setters that need to check
the state of the map. This helps to reduce the number of the places that
depend explicitly on the loaded flag, simplifying refactoring in the
next patch of this set.

Signed-off-by: Mykyta Yatsenko <yatsenko@meta.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20250303135752.158343-2-mykyta.yatsenko5@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>