accel/ivpu: Abort all jobs after command queue unregister

With hardware scheduler it is not expected to receive JOB_DONE
notifications from NPU FW for the jobs aborted due to command queue destroy
JSM command.

Remove jobs submitted to unregistered command queue from submitted_jobs_xa
to avoid triggering a TDR in such case.

Add explicit submitted_jobs_lock that protects access to list of submitted
jobs which is now used to find jobs to abort.

Move context abort procedure to separate work queue not to slow down
handling of IPCs or DCT requests in case where job abort takes longer,
especially when destruction of the last job of a specific context results
in context release.

Signed-off-by: Karol Wachowski <karol.wachowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Maciej Falkowski <maciej.falkowski@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jacek Lawrynowicz <jacek.lawrynowicz@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jacek Lawrynowicz <jacek.lawrynowicz@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20250107173238.381120-4-maciej.falkowski@linux.intel.com