sched: Split DEQUEUE_SLEEP from deactivate_task()

As a preparation for dequeue_task() failing, and a second code-path
needing to take care of the 'success' path, split out the DEQEUE_SLEEP
path from deactivate_task().

Much thanks to Libo for spotting and fixing a TASK_ON_RQ_MIGRATING
ordering fail.

Fixed-by: Libo Chen <libo.chen@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Valentin Schneider <vschneid@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Valentin Schneider <vschneid@redhat.com>
Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20240727105029.086192709@infradead.org