nvme-fc: go straight to connecting state when initializing

The initial controller initialization mimiks the reconnect loop
behavior by switching from NEW to RESETTING and then to CONNECTING.

The transition from NEW to CONNECTING is a valid transition, so there is
no point entering the RESETTING state. TCP and RDMA also transition
directly to CONNECTING state.

Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Wagner <wagi@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>