drm/xe/exec: Switch hw engine group execution mode upon job submission

If the job about to be submitted is a dma-fence job, update the current
execution mode of the hw engine group. This triggers an immediate suspend
of the exec queues running faulting long-running jobs.

If the job about to be submitted is a long-running job, kick a new worker
used to resume the exec queues running faulting long-running jobs once
the dma-fence jobs have completed.

v2: Kick the resume worker from exec IOCTL, switch to unordered workqueue,
    destroy it after use (Matt Brost)

v3: Do not resume if no exec queue was suspended (Matt Brost)

v4: Squash commits (Matt Brost)

v5: Do not kick the worker when xe_vm_in_preempt_fence_mode (Matt Brost)

Signed-off-by: Francois Dugast <francois.dugast@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240809155156.1955925-10-francois.dugast@intel.com