wifi: mac80211: update the right link for tx power

Stop looking at deflink and start using the actual link.
Initialize the power settings upon link init.

Signed-off-by: Emmanuel Grumbach <emmanuel.grumbach@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Miri Korenblit <miriam.rachel.korenblit@intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20241007144851.2685dab8e1ab.I1d82cbdb2dda020aee4a225bd9a134f7d82dd810@changeid


Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>