lockdep: Speed up lockdep_unregister_key() with expedited RCU synchronization

lockdep_unregister_key() is called from critical code paths, including
sections where rtnl_lock() is held. For example, when replacing a qdisc
in a network device, network egress traffic is disabled while
__qdisc_destroy() is called for every network queue.

If lockdep is enabled, __qdisc_destroy() calls lockdep_unregister_key(),
which gets blocked waiting for synchronize_rcu() to complete.

For example, a simple tc command to replace a qdisc could take 13
seconds:

  # time /usr/sbin/tc qdisc replace dev eth0 root handle 0x1: mq
    real    0m13.195s
    user    0m0.001s
    sys     0m2.746s

During this time, network egress is completely frozen while waiting for
RCU synchronization.

Use synchronize_rcu_expedited() instead to minimize the impact on
critical operations like network connectivity changes.

This improves 10x the function call to tc, when replacing the qdisc for
a network card.

   # time /usr/sbin/tc qdisc replace dev eth0 root handle 0x1: mq
     real     0m1.789s
     user     0m0.000s
     sys      0m1.613s

[boqun: Fixed the comment and add more information for the temporary
workaround, and add TODO information for hazptr]

Reported-by: Erik Lundgren <elundgren@meta.com>
Signed-off-by: Breno Leitao <leitao@debian.org>
Reviewed-by: Paul E. McKenney <paulmck@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Boqun Feng <boqun.feng@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250321-lockdep-v1-1-78b732d195fb@debian.org