replace do_setxattr() with saner helpers.

io_uring setxattr logics duplicates stuff from fs/xattr.c; provide
saner helpers (filename_setxattr() and file_setxattr() resp.) and
use them.

NB: putname(ERR_PTR()) is a no-op

Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>