drm/xe: Use a flags field instead of bools for sync parse

Use a flags field instead of severval bools for sync parse as it is
easier to read and less bug prone.

v2: Pull in header change from subsequent patch

Suggested-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>