fuse: prevent disabling io-uring on active connections

The enable_uring module parameter allows administrators to enable/disable
io-uring support for FUSE at runtime. However, disabling io-uring while
connections already have it enabled can lead to an inconsistent state.

Fix this by keeping io-uring enabled on connections that were already using
it, even if the module parameter is later disabled. This ensures active
FUSE mounts continue to function correctly.

Signed-off-by: Bernd Schubert <bschubert@ddn.com>
Reviewed-by: Luis Henriques <luis@igalia.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>