io_uring: fix io_queue_proc modifying req->flags

With multiple poll entries __io_queue_proc() might be running in
parallel with poll handlers and possibly task_work, we should not be
carelessly modifying req->flags there. io_poll_double_prepare() handles
a similar case with locking but it's much easier to move it into
__io_arm_poll_handler().

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Fixes: 595e5228 ("io_uring/poll: don't enable lazy wake for POLLEXCLUSIVE")
Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/455cc49e38cf32026fa1b49670be8c162c2cb583.1709834755.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>