posix-timers: Add proper state tracking

Right now the state tracking is done by two struct members:

 - it_active:
     A boolean which tracks armed/disarmed state

 - it_signal_seq:
     A sequence counter which is used to invalidate settings
     and prevent rearming

Replace it_active with it_status and keep properly track about the states
in one place.

This allows to reuse it_signal_seq to track reprogramming, disarm and
delete operations in order to drop signals which are related to the state
previous of those operations.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Gleixner <tglx@linutronix.de>
Reviewed-by: Frederic Weisbecker <frederic@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/20241001083835.670337048@linutronix.de