io_uring/memmap: account memory before pinning

Move memory accounting before page pinning. It shouldn't even try to pin
pages if it's not allowed, and accounting is also relatively
inexpensive. It also give a better code structure as we do generic
accounting and then can branch for different mapping types.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1e242b8038411a222e8b269d35e021fa5015289f.1732886067.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>