xfs: allow ro mounts if rtdev or logdev are read-only

Allow read-only mounts on rtdevs and logdevs that are marked as
read-only and make sure those mounts can't be remounted read-write.

Use the sb_open_mode helper to make sure that we don't try to open
devices with write access enabled for read-only mounts.

Signed-off-by: Hans Holmberg <hans.holmberg@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Carlos Maiolino <cmaiolino@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Carlos Maiolino <cem@kernel.org>