drm/gpuvm: reference count drm_gpuvm structures

Implement reference counting for struct drm_gpuvm.

Acked-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Boris Brezillon <boris.brezillon@collabora.com>
Signed-off-by: Danilo Krummrich <dakr@redhat.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20231108001259.15123-10-dakr@redhat.com