drm/amdkfd: Handle queue destroy buffer access race

Add helper function kfd_queue_unreference_buffers to reduce queue buffer
refcount, separate it from release queue buffers.

Because it is circular locking to hold dqm_lock to take vm lock,
kfd_ioctl_destroy_queue should take vm lock, unreference queue buffers
first, but not release queue buffers, to handle error in case failed to
hold vm lock. Then hold dqm_lock to remove queue from queue list and
then release queue buffers.

Restore process worker restore queue hold dqm_lock, will always find
the queue with valid queue buffers.

v2 (Felix):
- renamed kfd_queue_unreference_buffer(s) to kfd_queue_unref_bo_va(s)
- added two FIXME comments for follow up

Signed-off-by: Philip Yang <Philip.Yang@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Felix Kuehling <felix.kuehling@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Felix Kuehling <felix.kuehling@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>