nbd: move the task_recv check into nbd_size_update

nbd_size_update is about to acquire a few more callers, so lift the check
into the function.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>