netfilter: nf_tables: Audit log dump reset after the fact

In theory, dumpreset may fail and invalidate the preceeding log message.
Fix this and use the occasion to prepare for object reset locking, which
benefits from a few unrelated changes:

* Add an early call to nfnetlink_unicast if not resetting which
  effectively skips the audit logging but also unindents it.
* Extract the table's name from the netlink attribute (which is verified
  via earlier table lookup) to not rely upon validity of the looked up
  table pointer.
* Do not use local variable family, it will vanish.

Fixes: 8e6cf365 ("audit: log nftables configuration change events")
Signed-off-by: Phil Sutter <phil@nwl.cc>
Reviewed-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>