fs: add i_state helpers

The i_state member is an unsigned long so that it can be used with the
wait bit infrastructure which expects unsigned long. This wastes 4 bytes
which we're unlikely to ever use. Switch to using the var event wait
mechanism using the address of the bit. Thanks to Linus for the address
idea.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240823-work-i_state-v3-1-5cd5fd207a57@kernel.org


Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>