io_uring: consistently use rcu semantics with sqpoll thread

The sqpoll thread is dereferenced with rcu read protection in one place,
so it needs to be annotated as an __rcu type, and should consistently
use rcu helpers for access and assignment to make sparse happy.

Since most of the accesses occur under the sqd->lock, we can use
rcu_dereference_protected() without declaring an rcu read section.
Provide a simple helper to get the thread from a locked context.

Fixes: ac0b8b32 ("io_uring: fix use-after-free of sq->thread in __io_uring_show_fdinfo()")
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250611205343.1821117-1-kbusch@meta.com


[axboe: fold in fix for register.c]
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>