brd: avoid extra xarray lookups on first write

The xarray can return the previous entry at a location.  Use this
fact to simplify the brd code when there is no existing page at
a location.  This also slighly improves the handling of racy
discards as we now always have a page under RCU protection by the
time we are ready to copy the data.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250507060700.3929430-1-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>