EDAC/{skx_common,i10nm}: Refactor enable_retry_rd_err_log()

Refactor enable_retry_rd_err_log() using helper functions for both
DDR and HBM, making the RRL control bits configurable instead of
hard-coded. Additionally, explicitly define the four RRL modes for
better readability.

No functional changes intended.

Signed-off-by: Qiuxu Zhuo <qiuxu.zhuo@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Luck <tony.luck@intel.com>
Tested-by: Feng Xu <feng.f.xu@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250417150724.1170168-6-qiuxu.zhuo@intel.com