block: add a rq_list type

Replace the semi-open coded request list helpers with a proper rq_list
type that mirrors the bio_list and has head and tail pointers.  Besides
better type safety this actually allows to insert at the tail of the
list, which will be useful soon.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20241113152050.157179-5-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>