net/mlx5: Handle memory scheme ODP capabilities

When running over new FW that supports the new memory scheme ODP, set
the cap in the FW to signal the FW we are working in the new scheme.

In the memory scheme ODP the per_transport_service capabilities are RO
for the driver so we skip their setting.

Signed-off-by: Michael Guralnik <michaelgur@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20240909100504.29797-9-michaelgur@nvidia.com


Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>