nvmet-fcloop: add ref counting to lport

The fcloop_lport objects live time is controlled by the user interface
add_local_port and del_local_port. nport, rport and tport objects are
pointing to the lport objects but here is no clear tracking. Let's
introduce an explicit ref counter for the lport objects and prepare the
stage for restructuring how lports are used.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Wagner <wagi@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>