drm/xe: Invalidate userptr VMA on page pin fault

Rather than return an error to the user or ban the VM when userptr VMA
page pin fails with -EFAULT, invalidate VMA mappings. This supports the
UMD use case of freeing userptr while still having bindings.

Now that non-faulting VMs can invalidate VMAs, drop the usm prefix for
the tile_invalidated member.

v2:
 - Fix build error (CI)
v3:
 - Don't invalidate VMA if in fault mode, rather kill VM (Thomas)
 - Update commit message with tile_invalidated name chagne (Thomas)
 - Wait VM bookkeep slots with VM resv lock (Thomas)
v4:
 - Move list_del_init(&userptr.repin_link) after error check (Thomas)
 - Assert not in fault mode (Matthew)

Fixes: dd08ebf6 ("drm/xe: Introduce a new DRM driver for Intel GPUs")
Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240312183907.933835-1-matthew.brost@intel.com