fsnotify: check if file is actually being watched for pre-content events on open

So far, we set FMODE_NONOTIFY_ flags at open time if we know that there
are no permission event watchers at all on the filesystem, but lack of
FMODE_NONOTIFY_ flags does not mean that the file is actually watched.

For pre-content events, it is possible to optimize things so that we
don't bother trying to send pre-content events if file was not watched
(through sb, mnt, parent or inode itself) on open. Set FMODE_NONOTIFY_
flags according to that.

Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/2ddcc9f8d1fde48d085318a6b5a889289d8871d8.1731684329.git.josef@toxicpanda.com