io_uring/register: document io_register_resize_rings() shared mem usage

It can be a bit hard to tell which parts of io_register_resize_rings()
are operating on shared memory, and which ones are not. And anything
reading or writing to those regions should really use the read/write
once primitives.

Hence add those, ensuring sanity in how this memory is accessed, and
helping document the shared nature of it.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>