net: ethtool: try to protect all callback with netdev instance lock

Protect all ethtool callbacks and PHY related state with the netdev
instance lock, for drivers which want / need to have their ops
instance-locked. Basically take the lock everywhere we take rtnl_lock.
It was tempting to take the lock in ethnl_ops_begin(), but turns
out we actually nest those calls (when generating notifications).

Tested-by: Maxime Chevallier <maxime.chevallier@bootlin.com>
Cc: Saeed Mahameed <saeed@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@fomichev.me>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250305163732.2766420-11-sdf@fomichev.me


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>