tcp: devmem: don't write truncated dmabuf CMSGs to userspace

Currently, we report -ETOOSMALL (err) only on the first iteration
(!sent). When we get put_cmsg error after a bunch of successful
put_cmsg calls, we don't signal the error at all. This might be
confusing on the userspace side which will see truncated CMSGs
but no MSG_CTRUNC signal.

Consider the following case:
- sizeof(struct cmsghdr) = 16
- sizeof(struct dmabuf_cmsg) = 24
- total cmsg size (CMSG_LEN) = 40 (16+24)

When calling recvmsg with msg_controllen=60, the userspace
will receive two(!) dmabuf_cmsg(s), the first one will
be a valid one and the second one will be silently truncated. There is no
easy way to discover the truncation besides doing something like
"cm->cmsg_len != CMSG_LEN(sizeof(dmabuf_cmsg))".

Introduce new put_devmem_cmsg wrapper that reports an error instead
of doing the truncation. Mina suggests that it's the intended way
this API should work.

Note that we might now report MSG_CTRUNC when the users (incorrectly)
call us with msg_control == NULL.

Fixes: 8f0b3cc9 ("tcp: RX path for devmem TCP")
Reviewed-by: Mina Almasry <almasrymina@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@fomichev.me>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250224174401.3582695-1-sdf@fomichev.me


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>