btrfs: add support for passing in write hints for buffered writes

Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@dilger.ca>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>