XArray: Unify xa_cmpxchg and __xa_cmpxchg

xa_cmpxchg() was one of the largest functions in the xarray
implementation.  By turning it into a wrapper and having the callers
take the lock (like several other functions), we save 160 bytes on a
tinyconfig build and reduce the duplication in xarray.c.

Signed-off-by: Matthew Wilcox <willy@infradead.org>