xfs: streamline defer op type handling

There's no need to bundle a pointer to the defer op type into the defer
op control structure.  Instead, store the defer op type enum, which
enables us to shorten some of the lines.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Sandeen <sandeen@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>