kismet: bump version and convert to Makefile.autotools.in format

Closes #487

* Bump kismet from 2007-10-R1 to 2009-06-R1 (newcore: nicer, more features)
* Migrate to Makefile.autotools.in
* Introduce new options to just install the server, client, drone or
  combination

Signed-off-by: Gustavo Zacarias <gustavo@zacarias.com.ar>
Signed-off-by: Peter Korsgaard <jacmet@sunsite.dk>